The hand you use to feed smells like food.
It’s a reminder to discern where and to whom you direct your benevolence.
This is a cautionary metaphor about being careful not to let others take advantage of your generosity or kindness.
Here’s an expanded perspective on this idea:
We all naturally desire to help others and contribute positively to the world.
Whether providing food, shelter, emotional support, or acts of service, the ability to nurture and sustain those in need is beautiful.
However, some people may exploit this goodwill for their selfish gain.
The metaphor suggests that when you extend a helping hand to feed someone, that hand inevitably takes on the scent of the food you’ve provided.
In the same way, your acts of generosity can attract opportunists who see you as a potential source to be drained rather than a compassionate giver.
It’s a reminder to discern where and to whom you direct your benevolence.
While closing yourself off ultimately would be unwise, it’s prudent to maintain boundaries and ensure that your kindness is not being persistently misused or manipulated for personal gain at your expense.
The goal is to find a balance – to live with an open heart that allows you to contribute meaningfully to the world while also protecting yourself from those who might seek to take callous advantage of your nurturing nature.
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